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Using IM 8/11/2014
I find that many simply never respond to an IM request for
chat. Is there any etiquette on this matter?
5 Comentarios, 108 Vistas,
9 Votos
,4.49 Puntuación
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Testimonials 7/11/2014
Do you sometimes say no thanks to someone that has given
you a testimonial?
6 Comentarios, 49 Vistas,
7 Votos
,5.08 Puntuación
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To thank or not to thank 6/11/2014
I use to love going on the IM but I rarely do now because all
it turns into is a steady stream of vulgar come ons from every
jerk ever put on this site. I not only don't say no thanks
I ignore them altogether and let them wonder if their IM
is working.
6 Comentarios, 63 Vistas,
18 Votos
,5.85 Puntuación
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No 31/10/2014
Saying no has become very easy to say on this site especially
with single guys.
3 Comentarios, 41 Vistas,
5 Votos
,4.12 Puntuación
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Blocked!!! 21/10/2014
There's no need to feel like you have to answer all these
guys, just block them period.
3 Comentarios, 44 Vistas,
11 Votos
,4.29 Puntuación
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No thanks. 15/10/2014
Do single guys realize that most women and couples get hit
repeatedly every day with stupid emails from single guys?
We have jobs we don't need another one answering all
the stupid stuff that comes our way. Oh and here's an idea try writing things that make sense
and that don't reek of coming from an 11 year old.
12 Comentarios, 77 Vistas,
19 Votos
,4.84 Puntuación
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The Best Way to Respond to "No Thanks" Replies 14/10/2014
Like anyone who has been on AmigosCalientes.com for any length of time and
has tried to make contact with someone, I have received
my share of "Thanks, but No Thanks" replies.
I have been told however, that my response to those "No
Thanks" replies is quite different than what most
women receive from those kinds of replies.
I am not rude or abusive to the woman who told me "No
Thanks". I do not whine or ...
0 Comentarios, 68 Vistas,
12 Votos
,4.92 Puntuación
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Ignoring people if not interested or politely declining 11/10/2014
What is the outlook on this? Do people prefer to hear back
even if it is not the response they would like to hear or will
being ignored also do the job. Also if you have to deal with unwanted attention do you prefer
to let them know or simply ignore it and the potential backlash
of a "sore loser" along with it?
5 Comentarios, 43 Vistas,
7 Votos
,2.53 Puntuación
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Since you asked... 30/9/2014
As I glanced at the articles on the Saying "No Thanks"
page, I noticed that 5/12 of the articles on the first page
were all regarding the fact that women here often don't
give a polite 'no thank you" when emailed or IMed.
I certainly don't expect that posting my reason for
not responding to those who contact me will make a dent in
the future "why are women so rude" questions,
but here goes ...
8 Comentarios, 113 Vistas,
18 Votos
,3.81 Puntuación
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Why does this seem to be so difficult.... 21/9/2014
I can understand that a huge amount of requests are posted
on this site especially in the chat rooms & IM, but so
many people just don't have the time to reply with a
polite "No Thanks", it's almost like everybody
is in such a rush or seem to hold themselves in such a high
esteem that it's below them to do so (you know who you
are people, admit it). I was always brought up to be polite and it's ...
7 Comentarios, 84 Vistas,
12 Votos
,1.39 Puntuación
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CAN YOU CHANGE YOUR DIRTY SEX MIND? 8/9/2014
A couple of years ago I was really into nipples. Human nipples
in particular (you wanted to take it there). I loved the
way my partner’s nips felt up against my skin, and the
way mine felt against their man-chest and lips. I loved
the sensation and the eroticism of the little weird evolutionary
phenomenon. I think my curiosity turned into a playful
exploration of all the cool things you could ...
7 Comentarios, 119 Vistas,
22 Votos
,4.93 Puntuación
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avoid shit 4/9/2014
Sometimes u just have to say no wat is for u is for u don't
rush life avoid unexpected stuff in like avoid say no
1 Comentarios, 28 Vistas,
9 Votos
,2.14 Puntuación
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It has to work for both or not at all 4/9/2014
Whenever I talk or chat with someone about meeting, I try
to make it very clear that even though it may sound like a
match and a hot time ahead, you don't know if it works
for you until you meet. Everyone has their own preferences
and attractions, I always meet with the agreement that
if it won't work for either one, it is a thanks, but no
thanks, a handshake, and good luck to you. I am not ...
4 Comentarios, 84 Vistas,
3 Votos
,5.39 Puntuación
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Do men read profiles at all 2/9/2014
Yes i like both men and women but at this time I'm looking
for only women to play with but these men seem to think they
can change you mine by saying I need dick if i want dick i will
get dick but i want and need pussy no thank you another black
men s
8 Comentarios, 81 Vistas,
13 Votos
,4.82 Puntuación
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Saying No 29/8/2014
When someone isn't attractive to you but keeps coming
at you how do you let them down easy?
3 Comentarios, 45 Vistas,
5 Votos
,3.80 Puntuación
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Being Polite 25/8/2014
I wish that people on this site would try a little to be polite.
If somebody sends you a message and you are not interested
in them; just respond back and say that you appreciate their
interest in you, but you are not interested.
I do not think it is very nice to just ignore their message.
Think of it like this: they found you attractive enough
to take the time to send a message, you ...
13 Comentarios, 108 Vistas,
25 Votos
,2.69 Puntuación
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not interested 18/8/2014
Why do ppl constantly message you especially on I.m when
you say your not interested and they just keep at it. I blocked
this guy and he changed his screen name 3 times just to keep
bugging me. Why is im not interested so hard to comprehend?
It bugs me with the persistance of some people. I hate to
be rude but sometimes thats all that will work.
5 Comentarios, 44 Vistas,
16 Votos
,2.25 Puntuación
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The best way 15/8/2014
What's the best way for a girl to tell you that they aren't
interested? Do you want a response? Is an explanation needed
or is "no thanks" enough? Do guys realize that
many will send back a response that mimics the attitude
that the interest is given?
7 Comentarios, 55 Vistas,
9 Votos
,5.56 Puntuación
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BLOG 6/8/2014
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3 Comentarios, 13 Vistas,
3 Votos
,3.43 Puntuación
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NO THANKS 1/8/2014
Strictly speaking "No thanks" would mean the
person is not giving you any thanks. With a comma, "No,
thanks", means "No, but thank you anyway"
or similar
1 Comentarios, 21 Vistas,
2 Votos
,3.81 Puntuación
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Ways to not say "no" 23/7/2014
If you send someone a friend request and your YIM and then
suddenly start ignoring all messages, even those that
say "Hey, it's ok if you are not interested, JUST
LET ME KNOW, " that is rude. Please just say "Sorry,
I am really not interested in pursuing anything further
with you." Believe me, most people on here are mature
enough to say in response, "OK, good luck, "
and move on to the next ...
11 Comentarios, 70 Vistas,
10 Votos
,2.39 Puntuación
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Hypocrisy? 12/7/2014
AmigosCalientes.com has been a good platform for like minded people to get
to know each other...express themselves. But i guess the
reality is very different. Many a times the profiles are
misleading. The response one gets is so different that
what's in profile. Knowing well that with distance, different priorities
and in general the circumstances it would not be possible
to always meet in person. The big ...
4 Comentarios, 85 Vistas,
7 Votos
,4.06 Puntuación
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just say . . . 8/7/2014
no.
i've already had enough to eat.
thanks though.
k.
bai.
2 Comentarios, 13 Vistas,
3 Votos
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The Polite No Thank you 5/7/2014
So, here you are on the instant messenger. You log on to see
who's chatting, someone flashes across your screen
with a hello, you quickly view their profile, you're
not interested! What do you do?
Well, from experience that my significant other has had
on this site, most people just ignore the other person if
they're not interested.
I am one of the types that believe that's not ...
9 Comentarios, 121 Vistas,
28 Votos
,6.73 Puntuación
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Proper etiquette on saying NO 3/7/2014
There are alot of members who get tons of e-mails, flirts
and friend requests (especially women) on AmigosCalientes.com, so much
that many of them just delete/ignore the sender. The proper
way to respond would be to just say "No thanks I am not
interested" copy this response to the cursor and
paste it when appropriate. If the sender keeps on sending
either block or report that person. When you do not respond
to ...
6 Comentarios, 67 Vistas,
6 Votos
,3.65 Puntuación
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No Reply Is a Message Also! 27/6/2014
That's what the blogger wrote on my blog awhile back:
"No reply is also a reply." I wonder about that
really? I mean, I know it could be, but I also have found that
days later after I have made an inquiry with someone by sending
them an introductory email, they respond and not always
in a negative fashion.
"I've just been so inundated by emails."
one sweet lady wrote. Another said she ...
5 Comentarios, 40 Vistas,
4 Votos
,4.80 Puntuación
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Why is it so hard to reply 15/6/2014
Why do people, women, never reply to messages even if just
to say "sorry no thanks". Surely it cannot that
hard to do.
10 Comentarios, 123 Vistas,
18 Votos
,3.40 Puntuación
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I listen to NO 14/6/2014
I listen when someone tells me no. I respect their choice,
and will ask, if it is appropriate, what led to their decision.
I prefer conversation to conflict, and think that feedback
allows me to make changes if needed. However, that doesn't
mean I won't ever ask again! There is a place for persistence,
and I have even been called stubborn (really). I had a work place encounter that ...
0 Comentarios, 31 Vistas,
4 Votos
,3.63 Puntuación
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How to walk away gracefully? 14/5/2014
So, Im just wondering what you all thought the best way to
bow out of a set up 'meeting' with another member
is. For instance, I sent a lady a message, things went well,
decided to meet, and I had second thoughts so I sent a respectful
reply saying id changed my mind. Then i got BLOWN up. Didnt
think that'd happen but hey, maybe its just a one in
a hundred kinda thing...
4 Comentarios, 105 Vistas,
5 Votos
,4.77 Puntuación
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The power of saying NO / YES / MAYBE - and the courage it takes... 26/4/2014
Ok, so you are not interested. How about just say: "Thanks
- but no thanks". Believe me, it is more elegant to
say No Thanks, than to disappear after countless exchanges,
or a lame excuse, like "the ate my _ _ _ _ _".
We are all adults here (ok, that's a long shot). The
fact is that there's power in saying no. Where negativity
is an ongoing attitude, No is a moment of clear choice. It
announces, ...
5 Comentarios, 78 Vistas,
12 Votos
,1.92 Puntuación
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