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When you say no to a couple 15/4/2014
Why is it that when you tell a couple that is trying to get
you to come in and have sex with the female in the duo "no",
they just can't accept that and feel the need to offer
you reasons why it would be a good thing?
I personally feel that when you marry someone, its not to
share them, at least not sexually and if I express that to
you, that should be your signal to back off... Respect ...
3 Comentarios, 59 Vistas,
10 Votos
,4.18 Puntuación |
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Consent is Sexy! 8/4/2014
Consent is sexy! People should feel free to do or not do anything
in bed/the shower/while tied up/in public/etc. Besides,
how awesome is it when you get to hear them tell you "Yeah,
I want it!"
2 Comentarios, 22 Vistas,
5 Votos
,5.10 Puntuación |
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women 2/4/2014
Women on this site are such ass wipes if u dou wanna take to
a guy wen he sends a message tel them that don't not send
a message and then I keep replieyin thinkin u didn't
get my massage and then al of a sudden am a freak yr such ass
hole
18 Comentarios, 167 Vistas,
18 Votos
,0.53 Puntuación |
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be nice 16/2/2014
give some kind of response, let them know u got message, or
they might keep mailing
10 Comentarios, 62 Vistas,
5 Votos
,2.49 Puntuación |
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Everyone On AmigosCalientes.com has been really, really polite to me 3/2/2014
People have either said no thanks and said why, or they've
said, later and then contacted me later to get together.
I love this site, it's a great place to meet people.
I've tried some other sites and didn't have any
luck whatsoever.
6 Comentarios, 58 Vistas,
9 Votos
,4.28 Puntuación |
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It's rare when we say no thanks, but when we do we're honest with them 23/1/2014
Be nice, be up front and be truthful to everyone.
We've had a hard time with three or four single guys
- our add clearly states no single men but they continue
to message us and one, after being told no for the fourth
time went off on a rage on annie accusing her of being a slut,
a and a cheating wife....we reported him and his profile
soon disappeared from AmigosCalientes.com.
Since then I ...
4 Comentarios, 66 Vistas,
11 Votos
,4.10 Puntuación |
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It's rare when we say no thanks, but when we do we're honest with them 23/1/2014
Be nice, be up front and be truthful to everyone.
We've had a hard time with three or four single guys
- our add clearly states no single men but they continue
to message us and one, after being told no for the fourth
time went off on a rage on annie accusing her of being a slut,
a and a cheating wife....we reported him and his profile
soon disappeared from AmigosCalientes.com.
Since then I ...
3 Comentarios, 41 Vistas,
9 Votos
,4.92 Puntuación |
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How many 'No Thanks' can you take? 20/1/2014
Browsing down the categories to see where I should post
this and the SAYING 'NO THANKS' heading waved
and whistled at me..... Been married 35 years and it is a very strong marriage with
some severe tests along the way; great highs, painful lows
and buckets of tears and laughter along the way. We are very close and are best friends and the only secret
I have from my wife is my registration on ...
4 Comentarios, 101 Vistas,
4 Votos
,2.47 Puntuación |
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Saying no thanks 16/11/2013
How do i say no thanks without gurting someones feelings?
0 Comentarios, 1 Vistas,
1 Votos
,5.00 Puntuación |
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Why don't people do this? 18/10/2013
When you try to im someone and they just ignore you it is really
frustrating. Could they just say, "thanks, I'm
not interested."? I guess the problem is if they accept
the im at all then if they try to say no the other person will
keep bothering them. What do you think? Is ignoring the
right thing to do, or should you at least respond with a "no
thank you"?
8 Comentarios, 79 Vistas,
10 Votos
,5.38 Puntuación |
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too much 16/10/2013
Its healthy to have breaks now and then too much sex can damage
your health greatly, and a break can sumtimes increase
the pleasure
0 Comentarios, 7 Vistas,
1 Votos
,1.10 Puntuación |
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confused i am 23/9/2013
so many times men complain they do not get a reply from women
either by email or on the IM chat.
well explain this.... as i have just been lectured by an
18yr old boy that i was rude for accepting his chat request
and explaining my preferences to him, several times
he was then abusive and told me i was wasting his time by accepting
the chat
so we get criticized when we ...
11 Comentarios, 141 Vistas,
22 Votos
,5.41 Puntuación |
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Constructive 18/9/2013
Do you give constructive criticism when saying no?
1 Comentarios, 51 Vistas,
8 Votos
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how to say it and not be rude 6/8/2013
there seems to be a culture that says saying no is insulting,
i have to disagree, asserting your right to make the choice
you want without fear of peer pressure is fundamental part
of life. admittedly i dont get to say no much on here!
0 Comentarios, 29 Vistas,
6 Votos
,3.93 Puntuación |
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If there is just no attraction... 21/7/2013
One of the tougher reasons to just say, especially if a woman
on this site is showing interest and there is just no attraction
towards her, but in the few cases, I have tried to be honest
instead of just leaving it go. Thoughts?
4 Comentarios, 83 Vistas,
7 Votos
,2.79 Puntuación |
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Safe Sex 9/7/2013
Play Safe!!!!
2 Comentarios, 27 Vistas,
5 Votos
,3.80 Puntuación |
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¿Qué no harías? 7/7/2013
¿Qué no te gustaría hacer?
0 Comentarios, 7 Vistas,
2 Votos
,2.42 Puntuación |
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Why are We Women so Dificult? 29/4/2013
We girls don't know how good we have it. We certainly
don't appreciate all the men making an effort to try
to talk to us. Even when the men are nice to us we still treat
them like shit, that's not fair at all, its completely
wrong, and I agree with the men that we don't deserve
to be praised like we are on this site. Most of the guys on
here aren't half bad, Take it Coming from a Female.
SO THIS ...
8 Comentarios, 121 Vistas,
17 Votos
,5.67 Puntuación |
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ok 27/3/2013
It hurts a little but its polite and averyone should have
their say
0 Comentarios, 42 Vistas,
8 Votos
,2.55 Puntuación |
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fitness 27/3/2013
lets try and look after our bodies. at least lets try. its
always sexy to our partners
2 Comentarios, 25 Vistas,
2 Votos
,2.42 Puntuación |
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I have a difficult time saying "no thanks" 14/3/2013
In general, women that I meet via AmigosCalientes.com fall into three main
categories: "Yes!", "Not great, but
she'll do" and "No $%#@ way!!".
You can call me shallow. You can call me a sex fiend or a predator. I don't think so - just an ordinary guy looking for some
fun.
The twist is that I'm a gentleman. I don't abuse the women that I meet. I treat them well - with respect and try to keep ...
3 Comentarios, 93 Vistas,
10 Votos
,2.79 Puntuación |
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Implied "No Thanks" 16/2/2013
I can accept a "no thank you". Its clear, and
easily understood.
What ALOT of us men get unfortunately, are NO responses.
If the man actually took time to write a paragraph that didnt
include WANNA FUCK, or COME FUCK NOW, then shouldnt you return the common courtesy
of a response?
NO response is just rude. If you had time to read it, you have
time to type a response.
4 Comentarios, 95 Vistas,
11 Votos
,5.04 Puntuación |
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confused 14/2/2013
i am not into sex chat and stuff at all, but i did chat a lot
with a girl from this site...for about a couple of months...she
kept postponing to meet me due to some family emergencies..but
loved talking to me...now she has taken some time out due
to some family crisis and asked me to wait. is it working
for me or not?
2 Comentarios, 79 Vistas,
5 Votos
,2.82 Puntuación |
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rejection 12/2/2013
girsl probably reject a lot here.. i mena seriously they
must get like 100 messages a day and they get to pick who they
wanna fuckk.... isnt it tru ladies....
1 Comentarios, 45 Vistas,
2 Votos
,2.42 Puntuación |
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Question, Would You Rather Be Told No Up Front 5/2/2013
We have a couple we like and have been talking to on a regular
basis for nearly two years. Both are extremely hot and both
tell us that they want to take their first plunge with us,
which I believe, but Danny is skeptical.
I say they're afraid to take the plunge, that it is erotica
for them to talk to us, share pictures with us, talk of swapping;
of their fantasies.
However, ...
8 Comentarios, 139 Vistas,
14 Votos
,4.10 Puntuación |
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Isnt Easy 24/12/2012
you email you chat you share picks and you decide that you
would like to me... You make the plans and you meet and on the surface all is cool...but
under the conversation and laughter that lil spark required
to get naked isnt what it should be.....you know it will
never happen
been there done that...it just isnt easy since the underlying
reason for meeting was to get naked.....I would ...
3 Comentarios, 83 Vistas,
8 Votos
,4.64 Puntuación |
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why so hard 21/12/2012
Why is it so hard for someone to just say "no thanks"
It seems to me that most people in general like to avoid confrontation
and would just rather ignore a person then to respond.
6 Comentarios, 76 Vistas,
14 Votos
,2.98 Puntuación |
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How do you politely say NO? 19/12/2012
Just because I'm a guy it's assumed I want to sleep
with every woman I see. How do you let someone down gently?
I mean sometimes it's not about straight up attraction
or whatever, it can be about other stuff that's going
on.
I don't want to hurt feelings, but then again I don't
want to go home hating myself either...
Advice?
4 Comentarios, 55 Vistas,
4 Votos
,3.25 Puntuación |
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Nothing said. 19/12/2012
We met with a couple from AmigosCalientes.com and had a nice dinner and good
conversation. During the course of the evening, however
I think they realized that neither of us were sexually attracted
each other. We ended the night in a pleasant manner and departed.
We see each other on occasion at a local club and speak and
go our separate way with nothing ever said about swinging
or swapping. So sometime you ...
3 Comentarios, 59 Vistas,
7 Votos
,3.30 Puntuación |
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Does it ever bother you? 10/12/2012
When a girl acts like she wants it, then says no...
1 Comentarios, 32 Vistas,
4 Votos
,1.30 Puntuación |