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is it really that hard? 8/6/2006
I dont understand why people cant just say it straight up.
its easier in the long run so why nota?
0 Comentarios, 17 Vistas,
1 Votos
,2.40 Puntuación
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is it ok for a guy to say no 7/6/2006
sometimes when i come home from work and im tired or agitated
or just dont feel like having sex my girfrien gets pissed
is that ok for her to get pissed or am i being insensative
0 Comentarios, 30 Vistas,
2 Votos
,3.81 Puntuación
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me, sayin no? 7/6/2006
thats just one thing i will not say when offered sex!!
0 Comentarios, 21 Vistas,
2 Votos
,2.42 Puntuación
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courtesey 4/6/2006
Do you think more members should at least reply to an iniatial
contact from somebody
3 Comentarios, 91 Vistas,
5 Votos
,3.47 Puntuación
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Advances From Other Guys 3/6/2006
The one where I always feel weird is when I get advances from
other guys, to which I have no interest. I usually give a
"Thanks for you offer, but I'm just not into that."
0 Comentarios, 24 Vistas,
1 Votos
,2.40 Puntuación
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What would u want to hear?? 31/5/2006
It can be difficult to tell a new friend/prospective swinging
partner that sexually you are not interested, especially
if you like them and enjoy their friendship.
Would you want to hear "Thanks, but....?
Certainly you wouldn't but you also would not want
a new friend to shy away because they could not find the words
to be honest. This would leave you to wonder why they ...
0 Comentarios, 22 Vistas,
1 Votos
,3.70 Puntuación
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how difficult is it for you?? 29/5/2006
tell me guys and gals...how do you say, "thanks, but
no thanks" to someone?? is it just that easy?
4 Comentarios, 201 Vistas,
7 Votos
,2.79 Puntuación
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why 28/5/2006
why do gay men always hit on straight men or pretend to be
womnen i dont get it
0 Comentarios, 36 Vistas,
0 Votos
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Intriguing 25/5/2006
The situation of having to say no thanks has never arose,
I just can't afford to be that fussy!
Come on though girls let us down gently if we are only trying
to make contact, then if we persist....
let 'em have it no mercy.
Able
0 Comentarios, 25 Vistas,
0 Votos
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How do you turn a woman down? 24/5/2006
If you were to meet up with a woman and she is not what you expected,
what is the best way in saying no even thou she is soo into
you?
what would you do if you was about to get down and dirty with
a woman and her juices had a bad smell, how do you get away
without being rude?
0 Comentarios, 14 Vistas,
0 Votos
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The Thankful No Thanks 22/5/2006
I suppose this is more of a "topic for discussion"
than an article.
I think that a lot of men aren't very picky when it comes
to sex. Not saying that all aren't, but most men are
more picky than women, I think. I AM, though. Maybe I don't
need to be... but I am. So when it comes time to say "No
Thanks" to someone I always feel kinda awkward about
it, mostly because of the "I ...
0 Comentarios, 23 Vistas,
1 Votos
,2.40 Puntuación
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'No' is fine...just say something 21/5/2006
I think most people...in general...handle rejection
well. So why can't people just have to courage to say
THAT much? I'm talking about the people who go for weeks
with a luke warm attitude to relationships.
0 Comentarios, 44 Vistas,
2 Votos
,2.42 Puntuación
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Just Saying No 20/5/2006
It's not a hard thing to do. We do it everyday. What am
I referring to? Just saying, "no." No, I'm
not going to work today. No, I don't have any money to
lend you. No, I don't want any peas with my carrots.
Unfortunately, we too often say no without saying anything
at all. And I am just as guilty of this as so many others. Receiving
an e-mail, invitation or just a simple wink, ...
0 Comentarios, 19 Vistas,
2 Votos
,3.12 Puntuación
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whats the deal 17/5/2006
Why is it that people do not understand what thanks but no
thanks means. They get upset like you owe them something,
like just because you are on an adult site you have to want
to engage in sex with whomever sends you a note. Why is this
people help me out?
0 Comentarios, 21 Vistas,
1 Votos
,5.00 Puntuación
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No thanks 16/5/2006
Don't be shy, just say no and kick 'em to the curb.
They're old enough to accept it, they'll get over
it.
0 Comentarios, 15 Vistas,
1 Votos
,5.00 Puntuación
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Don't Leave Them Hanging 15/5/2006
There have been times when I have taken the time to meet up
with a member here at AmigosCalientes.com, but for me the chemistry was not
there. It gets a little awkward. I usually try to enjoy the
meet and greet, and later contact them via member email
to let them know that I appreciate them coming to meet me,
but I try to communicate nicely that I do not want to pursue
the relationship any further.
...
0 Comentarios, 69 Vistas,
3 Votos
,4.41 Puntuación
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How nicely some people say ( NO ) 14/5/2006
We don’t want to hurt people , that’s obvious , but we want
to be honest and say what we feel, if I don’t fancy I’ll so
and I expect the same , but in a nice way.
0 Comentarios, 33 Vistas,
2 Votos
,5.20 Puntuación
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A Kind Refusal 13/5/2006
Sometimes it can be difficult for people to let someone
down nicely. For example I found myself being hit on by a
gay man at a bar. I've never had a lot of exposure to gay
men, and I was at a loss as how to let him down easily. How is
a person supposed to know what the right thing to do is when
this sort of thing has never come up before?
1 Comentarios, 72 Vistas,
4 Votos
,4.02 Puntuación
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How can you grt it through to there head? 12/5/2006
I want to know why some guys just don't know when you
stop? I mean come on when a woman says no thanks or i am not
interested what does this tell the guy? Sometimes it like
it tells him to ask more and it really gets on my nerves after
a while and i am not a mean person but i go my limits...t
1 Comentarios, 36 Vistas,
7 Votos
,2.28 Puntuación
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Should I have said no? 7/5/2006
Recently I went on a trip for work and it happend to be where
one of my friends lives now. I hung out with him the whole
time I was in town. Well, I also meet his brother and his brothers
girlfriend. We would hang out and drink and we all had a good
time. One night, we were talking about a threesome and my
friends girl, lets call her Sam, seemed like she was all
for it. My friends brother, ...
0 Comentarios, 105 Vistas,
3 Votos
,2.94 Puntuación
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bent5 6/5/2006
dork
0 Comentarios, 23 Vistas,
0 Votos
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Some Hints About Saying 'No Thanks' 5/5/2006
These are just some ideas from my perspective, they represent
how I would want to be treated, especially if I met someone
in person, and they weren't interested. Take them
or leave them, it's up to you.
Be prompt.Don't leave the person wondering,
tell them right away you are not interested. Yes, the person
is likely to get the hint eventually if you ignore them (some ...
1 Comentarios, 98 Vistas,
6 Votos
,5.64 Puntuación
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Why is this so hard? 2/5/2006
You finaly meet this person and then you realize that you
are not interested at all. So now what? You should just tell
him right? Well how do you do that with out sounding like
a b*tch. Now some people don't care if they sound like
a b*tch but i am one of those silly little people who care
about other peoples feelings. Unless I have a real fear
of catching something then i will usually go ...
3 Comentarios, 187 Vistas,
17 Votos
,2.70 Puntuación
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The Trouble With Saying "No Thanks" 2/5/2006
This isn't much of a hook to this article, but let me
preface this by saying that my Dad raised me right in one
respect, I have the greatest respect and admiration for
women in general.
That being said, ladies, you need a reality check in one
respect. On the admittedly rare occaisions that it happens,
(most guys are sluts) it is orders of magnitude harder for
a man to say no to a ...
0 Comentarios, 53 Vistas,
5 Votos
,5.75 Puntuación
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What was I thinking? 1/5/2006
Ladies, do you ever look back at some of you past sex partners
and wondered, "What the hell was I thinking?"
I wonder what it is that goes through our minds the moment
we make the bad decision to sleep with someone we know we
don't like. I've had that little voice saying
"Don't do it" but did it anyway. Then I kick
myself in the butt later. Sometimes we are tricked because
we are in ...
0 Comentarios, 49 Vistas,
2 Votos
,3.81 Puntuación
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it is so easy 28/4/2006
it is so easy to say, but so many people can not do it. why??
0 Comentarios, 34 Vistas,
2 Votos
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my bad 26/4/2006
not sure whats goin on
0 Comentarios, 37 Vistas,
0 Votos
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no means no 19/4/2006
just be respectful and things go smoothly.
0 Comentarios, 52 Vistas,
4 Votos
,2.08 Puntuación
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mixed messages 19/4/2006
A few days after joining the site I got several messages
in capital letters - 'PLEASE READ THIS XXX' from
a 'clit-lover5'. We had a lot in common so I replied,
he seemed nice, we exchanged and had some
really good conversations and also exchanged some saucy
texts.
I was rather overwhelmed by the intensity of his response
to me - 'I feel we have really connected and I'm
looking ...
4 Comentarios, 310 Vistas,
14 Votos
,5.06 Puntuación
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HELP 19/4/2006
is there a polite
way to say that you are not intrested?
0 Comentarios, 162 Vistas,
3 Votos
,1.96 Puntuación
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