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Re:shy-gu-2002/women do not respond 4/6/2004
Like two4fun1962, I want to commend you on tour realistic
point of view regarding the situation.
We haven't been in a situation where we've received
more mail than we can handle, but I'm quite certain
it happens to many of the single ladies on the site. It seems
that many of the guys on the site don't realize that
not all single women are Silver or Gold members, nor do they
have an ...
0 Comentarios, 7 Vistas,
13 Votos
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Why can't everyone just be considerate? 3/6/2004
I've read a few articles about saying 'no thanks'
... and I fully appreciate that a standard member only has
a few opportunities to use email.
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However some of us when writing add an email address to our
sig strip --- so how come we still can't seem to get a
simple 'no thanks'?
<br>
We've made the effort to bother to write , we've
racked and fussed over what to ...
0 Comentarios, 5 Vistas,
12 Votos
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Sorry, but I want to be just friends! 1/6/2004
I was wondering, if you decide to meet someone from fpp.
and no sparks fly, how should go abouts saying no thanks?
3 Comentarios, 29 Vistas,
11 Votos
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answering messages 1/6/2004
I am a silver member and try to respond to every wink and message
I receive. However what I find irritating is that in my header
for my profile I ask if the guy isn't over 35 or single
to not message me or wink. I constantly get messages as well
as winks that don't fit the criteria. Most of them are
standard members and I realize that they can't view
my profile and that is why I have what ...
2 Comentarios, 75 Vistas,
15 Votos
,5.58 Puntuación
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%: Saying "no thanks" 1/6/2004
You do not owe anyone execpt for a 5 star match a "no
thank you" reply. ONE simple reason - they did not
respect your wishes and preferences.
0 Comentarios, 7 Vistas,
6 Votos
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Re: Re: Women do not respond! 31/5/2004
To shy-guy-2002: Very well written and also very true.
I know its not easy for men here to find a "real"
woman who is not advertising and drumming up business for
a porn site, and hats off to those of who take it with a grain
of salt, and move on, and keep looking. Hopefully, those
of you who do come across profiles who are drumming up business
report those profiles, so that they can be ...
0 Comentarios, 16 Vistas,
31 Votos
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dont be a bitch, be nice and say no thanks. 30/5/2004
I once asked this beautiful lady if she would like to dance, she
replied with this nasty look as if she were to good for me
and replied with "I dont think so"
real rudely. a simple No Thanks would have been nice. ladies
if you are not interested dont be a bitch and reply rudely
just say no thanks and we will go on about our buisness without
our spirits being crushed.
0 Comentarios, 4 Vistas,
31 Votos
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guys dont like things up the arse during sex 30/5/2004
my mates where talking today and the women where saying
that the guys love it when the women stick their fingers
up the guys arse but i for one do not like it and was wandering
if any guy acctually does?
1 Comentarios, 59 Vistas,
16 Votos
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How do you let someone know... 29/5/2004
How do you let someone know that you aren't sexually
attracted to them without hurting them? I have had a proposition
from a couple which I don't find sexually attractive.
I don't want to hurt anyone by telling them the wrong
way, but I don't want to just ignore them either. Help.
0 Comentarios, 10 Vistas,
6 Votos
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at swingers parties.... just say no 28/5/2004
I was recently at a swingers party where I saw a man approach
a woman and tell her, "my wife says it's ok if I
give you a kiss." And the women responded with a big
pull away, and the response of, "I don't care
what your wife approves of, the most important one to ask
is ME, and I say, NO!" You go girl!!! If you don't
want it... SAY IT!!
0 Comentarios, 53 Vistas,
25 Votos
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Re: Women do not respond! 24/5/2004
First I would like to address the question of why some women
do not respond to men and or couples. Being a "Real"
person and not some pay site I do get alot of email daily,
but most of it is crap. Most men(with the exception of about
10 that write to me do not clearly even read my profile.
If they took the time to actually read, put the password
in the subject line(I use this to help weed ...
0 Comentarios, 29 Vistas,
24 Votos
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You don't have to be rude to say no 22/5/2004
The best way to say no is to tell the man that they are attractive
but not your type, which is usually true. You don't
need to lie and you don't need to be rude to say no.
1 Comentarios, 47 Vistas,
37 Votos
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Re: Women do not respond! 18/5/2004
Here we go again, another man complaining that women don't
respond. That maybe your experience, but don't lump
ALL women into this category, some of us do respond, either
to say "not interested" or "no thanks".
I agree that there probably are more women that don't
respond, but hey those are probably the ones that here drumming
up business for their porn site. Those of us who are actually ...
0 Comentarios, 8 Vistas,
68 Votos
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Re: Hello Gents 13/5/2004
You don't have time to write and tell someone no thanks,
but you have time to read the magazine and write an article...........HHMMMMMMM
It takes MORE time to read the magazine, write an article,
or respond to one than it does to simply click on reply and
say "sorry, I'm not interested at this time".
0 Comentarios, 0 Vistas,
32 Votos
,7.18 Puntuación
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DECLINE! 12/5/2004
When receiving "Invites" to the “Friend Network”,
“ACCEPT” or “DECLINE”; do not just leave it pending. It
is not necessary to take time to write a lengthy rejection
letter; however, not taking the few seconds to decline
the offer is just plain laziness.
It is understandable if the receiver hasn't logged
onto the site in awhile for an ...
0 Comentarios, 8 Vistas,
68 Votos
,8.92 Puntuación
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Re: Married 11/5/2004
No, you shouldn't resort to kicking him in the balls,
that is something that is done in elementary school playgrounds.
It's very simple, if your uncomfortable because he
is married and lied about it, keep telling him NO. Eventually,
he will get the hint and move on to some other poor unsuspecting
soul.
0 Comentarios, 0 Vistas,
27 Votos
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how to say no without hurting others 10/5/2004
I have recently become very active in the AmigosCalientes.com
site. I guess I am learning how to say "no".
I really prefer this way of chosing dates. It's great
to be able to get to know people I would not ordinally meet
because I don't usually have extra time to go out, and
I don't do the bar scene. Also we are lucky enough to
meet people that distance would never before allow, opening ...
0 Comentarios, 38 Vistas,
49 Votos
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it's my choice! 8/5/2004
If you write me and I let you know you're not my type because
of your age, location, preferences, looks, whatever -
what makes you think that arguing with me about how X, Y, Z
is really a bonus rather than a turn off. Do you honestly
think telling me I'm wrong and you're right is
a way to get into my pants? get real.
0 Comentarios, 27 Vistas,
46 Votos
,8.18 Puntuación
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Difficulty saying "thanks, but no thanks" 5/5/2004
We are young couple, not models but are quiet attractive.
But for some reason we seem to only find couples how we really
don't hit it off with & when thy ask to meet &
get things going- we don't know how to tell them "We're
not interested in having sex etc with you"
Does anyone have any ideas on how to try & sort out they
problem of not wanting to offend, but at the same time telling ...
1 Comentarios, 71 Vistas,
24 Votos
,4.83 Puntuación
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saying no 3/5/2004
I have been talking to someone for quite awhile now but it
seems like its going no where. Then all of a sudden they want
to me. How do I say no to them but do it nice so I don't burn
any bridges?
2 Comentarios, 15 Vistas,
9 Votos
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Saying "No Thanks" 1/5/2004
This article is for everyone.
<br>
Fill out your profile in full, do not do "prefers not
to say" unless it is about something that does not
need to be known like religion or income. Fill out your profile
truthfully a bi-female "looking for guys, girls,
3 somes, swaping..." who states in her profile that
she is looking for women or female couples just defeated
the star system ...
0 Comentarios, 11 Vistas,
29 Votos
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Saying "No Thanks" - part 2 1/5/2004
One last very important note.
<br>
When you do Initiate contact.
1 - Introduce your self with a first name.
2 - Be polite.
3 - Tell the person a little bit about yourself.
4 - Ask questions about what you have read in their
profile.
5 - Write. No all caps, no abbreviations. Spell correctly
and use proper grammer and punctuation. That is unless
the person ...
0 Comentarios, 4 Vistas,
18 Votos
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Painless ... 26/4/2004
It's pretty simple. When you get an email from somebody
you have no interest in getting to know, click "Reply".
Then type "No thanks" into the message area.
Click "send" and you're done. If you want
to be really nice, say something like, "Thanks for
your interest. I took a look at your profile and can see I'm
not the right guy for you. Good luck in your search."
If that's not good enough ...
0 Comentarios, 20 Vistas,
3 Votos
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Re: Turning down a request 23/4/2004
Just be as honest as possible. If your not comfortable with
a person, let them know that. If your not interested because
of age or distance, let them know that also. This is what
I have done, and it seems to have worked. I do try to answer
all replies, and do it honestly and in a timely manner.
1 Comentarios, 5 Vistas,
19 Votos
,5.89 Puntuación
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Dont ppl understand the word NO 22/4/2004
Okay someone explain to me how many ways one can say..No
Thank You? I even been rude as fuck about it..yet to no avail.
Help!!!
0 Comentarios, 6 Vistas,
24 Votos
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Having problems saying no! 22/4/2004
Having a girlfriend now and having to say no to beautiful
women is extremely hard!!
0 Comentarios, 1 Vistas,
15 Votos
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Re: articles mhmmm 21/4/2004
Oh, please. You're on an adult sex personals site.
What makes you think that people on here are interested
in following scripture to the letter?
<br>
I'm far more concerned about the appalling lack of
correct grammar and spelling among teens than I am about
some swear words.
<br>
And "our "? Your profile says that
you're 19. I highly doubt that *you've* raised
any ...
0 Comentarios, 38 Vistas,
16 Votos
,5.04 Puntuación
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when to know 21/4/2004
I know that most women get a lot of emails from tons of guys
but when do men know that they are going too far I think that
if you email a person and after 5 or so you dont get a response
that it is time to move on
0 Comentarios, 1 Vistas,
9 Votos
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Turning down a request 21/4/2004
Does anyone have a good way of saying forget it to someone
that you are not comfortable with besides telling them
to F off? Just ignoring is not really nice and I don't
want to hurt anyones feelings, but we want to make sure that
we have it with the person who we get together with. Any ideas?
0 Comentarios, 16 Vistas,
13 Votos
,5.49 Puntuación
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If the other partner isnt interested. 20/4/2004
That person should be polite about it and tell you they arent
interested. You should leave it at that. But at least you
have a right to know why are they arent interested. That
person who isnt interested should at least give you benefit
of the doubt first.
0 Comentarios, 3 Vistas,
25 Votos
,6.67 Puntuación
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